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[COG]

My biggest challenge is not what to do when we're naked, it's how to get her naked.

She's not comfortable with anything beyond a hug and a goodnight kiss. She does'nt even undress in front of me because she does'nt want to tease me. For example, let's say she's in the kitchen first thing in the morning preparing kid's lunches. If I were to come up behind her, gently wrap my arms around her, and kiss her neck softly, her response would be to stand there, stiff as a board, like I was'nt even there, or like if she were having a cramp or something. I mean she's really frigid.

She's also exhausted, she told me so the other night. Her day starts at 5:30 am and she does'nt slow down, or sit down till 10:00 at night. She even eats standing up, except dinner. Total Type A personality. She can run fast for 13 miles without stopping, swim a mile in 35 minutes, and ride a bike 100 miles through mountains in one day. She has to do everything herself, her way, on her time. She's known around these parts as the original superwoman. She even bakes birthday cakes for the neighbors for gosh sakes. But when it comes to sex, everything stops. We are at a complete standstill.

Now I'm optimistic, I know we can get through this. I just don't know how, or what more I can do to help. I sure appreciate the input I'm getting here though.

God Bless,

COG