yep and I don't care at this point. What he doesn't realize is that his mother has now moved to another state and she isn't going to tell him....and neither am I. This is the life he is choosing. Let him lay in the bed that he has made.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."