Congratulations, HB! That's such wonderful news. Great work! I can only imagine the look on your children's faces... Another family on the way to being saved! You should be so proud of yourself.
Please continue to post as you are piecing. I would love to keep following your successes!
As for the e-mail from OW, wow... There is simply no excuse whatsoever for what she contributed to. But I do admire her for having the courage to apologize to you personally (rather than through your H, for example). Yes, I agree to let it sit for a while and think about what feels right for you to do. Let HER squirm a little bit wondering what YOU'RE thinking, right?