Talking with W about situation with S14. I told her maybe we need to put a keylogger on to monitor his IM stuff for now, until we know for sure nothing is going on.
She immediately goes into a rant about how now I want our S14 to shake every time the phone rings or he sees an email from me, because that's what she does. Having lived for years wondering what is being watched, and how its going to be taken or perceived, how landing at the airport Sunday night, she instantly got a migraine, knowing she was now back here.
What the heck do I do with that? It seems like every conversation some how or other leads to her tearing at me about all this stuff. I'm doing everything I can to avoid R talks. I finally told her, listen I would gladly wear some sort of videocam mounted to my head for as long as it takes for you to see I'm not checking up on you, snooping or whatever it is you think I'm doing. Even with that, you would probably still say I'm only avoiding that stuff because I know I'm being watched and as soon as the cam goes away, back comes the bad stuff.
I really don't know what to say any more. I just stand, sit or lie there and let her vent. What else can I do?
