I totally understand and KNOW it is hard to talk about sex, and if my H said I could write it down, and he would read it, I probably would, at least until the embarrassment wore off. Now we will talk about it, but initially it was terribly difficult. And this was only recently. I don't think giving him a note is mind reading, if you are only telling him what YOU would like him to do. Or maybe telling him what you would like to do to him. I would think a guy would like a sexy note. How did he react to the note in his sock drawer?
Maybe I will tell H to call the dead flowers guy and have some delivered. No, he will BRING me flowers, but it was the idea that ones he had DELIVERED to me were the ones that were already drooping. And last year he had flowers DELIVERED to ow from a florist that we have had an account with for over twenty yrs. I have mentioned this to him, but won't mention it again, because I fell if he does have flowers DELIVERED to me again, it will really be special to me.
No, he will BRING me flowers, but it was the idea that ones he had DELIVERED to me were the ones that were already drooping. And last year he had flowers DELIVERED to ow from a florist that we have had an account with for over twenty yrs. 
