Stuboorn, I've been where you're at! Those conversations (such as you just detailed) are really pointless. Neither side is open to the others point of view. It just becomes "how can I knock this one back at her". The only good part is that you said what you needed to say. I know I felt that before but as far as creating change in your sitch...nah! I've also done the vacation thing. Last summer she wanted us all to go on a trip to China and I told her "NO". I told her I wasn't going to go and play happy hubby for her family. So, she went with the kids. Did it get me any respect? No. Did it change the sitch? No. But, hey, I got away from her for three weeks, works for me! Keep on polishing, Stub!
