My W called me today and asked me if it was ok if she went to my 5D t-ball game tonight, to which I said I had no problems with. She then asked if she could come over tonight to give the girls baths and put them to bed and then she would leave. I also agreed to this, maybe I shouldn't have but I have to think of my DD and not myself. The fact that she is asking me for permission is a huge 180 in our R. Let's hope this is the first stage of our reconcilation.
I agree with the blowing up in their face. I think things are finally starting to blowup in my W face. She doesn't have her home, is not able to put the girls to bed at night, and people that she loves finally know the truth that the A is continueing. She also stated Monday that she is going to be going to my SIL church and that she is going to be joining their Celebrate Recover program. I am have to assume she is joining this group so that she can get past the feeling of her rape and probably recover from the effects of our M. It sucks that she now feels that our M was so bad and that I am such a miserable person to be M to. I am praying that her heart starts to soften towards me.
