All right everyone please hit me with a 2x4. I am a snoop...there I confessed it. I am a snoop. Through more snooping I discovered that my W was looking for apartments last week while I was out of town. I guess it is good to know that she was not planning on living with the OM, but, I do not want my 2DD staying in some strange apartment. Heck, I do not want that for my W, but, that is her choice not mine.
I talked to the OM W again today, I promised her the otherday that I would call her back, I did not want to go back on my word. The funny thing that I discovered is that my W and the OM are lying to each other. He told my W that he served his W D papers, but, it was actually the exact oppposite that happened. BTW him and his W are still screwing around. I guess my W doesn't care that he is cheating on her. This A/R is a train wreck waiting to happen. The crappy thing is learning that this A-hole is still having his needs meet, I haven't had anything since all this started - 4+ months.
I don't think that I mentioned this earlier, but, the extent of the lieing is crazy. My neighbor who is aware of the sitch helped my W with our lawn mower while I was out of town. When she told me the story she told me that a different neighbor helped her out. Why lie about something as simple as this? I do not understand her rightnow. She seems to be hell bent on leaving me. All I have ever done is loved and provided for her as best I could and she doesn't see that. She is the victim....I trampled on her heart. I only saw her as a sex object.. When will she stop lying to herself and everybody else that loves her.
