I thought (to myself) the only difference is they are in the States and we are in Canada - how weird eh
If I had a nickel for every time H and I have talked about "fate" I would be a millionaire. We totally believe it in.
Here's something for you to chew on. In one of the articles I was reading about this complex, it stated that the men (as they get older and the problem becomes more prominent) they are usually drawn to women they feel (subconsciously) can "help" them
I have thought this for such a long time. I am convinced (well, before I even found out about this complex) that I was probably the only person that not only understood him, but that would stick by him through thick and thin to figure out what the problem was. I knew there was something there and I wasn't about to be just another woman in his life that "abandoned" him. However, that does come with the price. And the price is sometimes I feel as through I am a martyr - I even told the C that and he reassured me that it was the last thing I was.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
