Are you sure you and I and your H and mine aren't all clones?
I can't believe there is another couple that matches us almost identically - it's unbelieveable at times.
However, as much as I am not a religious person, I do have my very strong spiritual beliefs and perhaps some being out there just knew I needed a little extra support to get through this and, presto!! there you were. Someone that not only could understand what I was going through but someone that also had all the quick witted responses I need - how kewl is that?
H quite often gets people saying how I give him a run for his money. I am quick (most of the time) to his very dry english humour (which a lot of people miss totally) and I can hold my own better than most. He has always told me he married me for what was between my ears and I believe him (which hasn't been working as clearly as I would like lately)
When he tells other people that he married me because of my intelligence, most make a face, thinking that is somewhat of an insult but I am very quick to tell them that my H couldn't have given me a nicer compliment than that
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)