The Oosalem bird is still flying around!

[TabD]

MM,
Good Day, I am back now. I have had other issues at hand, or on the front burner... so DB BB has been put on the back burner for a while.

Just read thru your post's and trying to catch up. I am so sorry that you have to go thru this confusion. But I agree with every... it is confusion and you have to GIVE HER SPACE... obey her wishes so to say. b/c DD will probably not, and end up being pushy. Let her see it from him and not you!

As for S, I think you shouldn't be at her beck and call on that one. Yes I love my D's, and I want to make sure I help out in EVERY way that I can, but sometimes you need to let W/H figure this out on their own. I know it hurts and it is VERY hard to do, but it is something that does have to be done.

the BREAK with DD. This is good, but don't read to much into it. she is confused and having fun and enjoying your presence around has probably caused more confusion within her than you can imagine. GIVE HER SPACE.

RANT and RAVE here all you want. we "listen"