Girl - you have NO idea how you might have just helped save me from myself!
I won't go into the gory details...but we are in our relationship where most would give their private parts to be at with their spouse and I keep doing one of the two following things:
1) Jumping off the deep end at an ASSumption
2) Saying/doing something with an expected response (my expectations NOT his) and then loosing it when he doesn't respond with MY pre-scripted scenario. How dare he?