Well it happened last night. W began moving downstairs. This brought about the inevitable discussion w/ Ss. Prior to telling them, I told W to make sure she was planning on going through w/ it. I would not allow her to back out and try to come back and hurt Ss again. If she told them. That was final. She did. Then continued to move her stuff out. S8's reaction was about what I expected. From notunderstanding, to wanting to know why M can't keep working on it and learn to be happy and L Dad again. I don't know whether he took it better than me, went straight to denial that his P were splitting up, or don't understand it. He ended up being the one try to take care of me almost. Said he wished M would still L me like she used to.
There was alot of snuggling and lots of ILY last night. I've decided to keep Ss w/ me today. I figure we'll try to do some guy stuff.
I hate her for what she is doing to Ss.
W really has become a cold hearted, self-centered, b*&#).
