I will definitely keep you posted, I am still crossing my fingers though. I re-read the chapter about positive responses (can’t remember the exact name) in DB last night and it gave me some good insight. Last night she called and told me that she wasn’t feeling well, in fact she went to the Dr and was put on medicine for a sinus infections. She then told me that the flowers made her apartment smell beautiful and they made her day. She now lives in somewhat of a shady neighborhood without a car and has to take the subway to work (airport because she is a flight attendant), and this month she is on call. So last night I told her that if she gets called in really early to call me and I will give her a ride. She had told me before that she didn’t feel that safe riding the train in the morning, in fact she said she almost called me while we were separated because she was scared. Well she didn’t call me last night or this morning, so I’m not even sure if she is working. But I looked at my list of goals and #1 and #2 were both knocked out this past weekend, so I really should be complaining its not going at the speed I would like, but we are communicating more then we did a week ago. I just hope it doesn’t start to backslide.
Anyway, I forgot to mention this. Our anniversary is on Saturday, which is also Cinco De Mio. I asked her on Sunday if she would like to have dinner, but she said she had already made plans to go to a girlfriends party (somewhat invited me, but not a definite invite), but would like to do something during the day. To be honest I’m a little bit hurt, but I know she could have made those plans before we even began talking again, so I brushed it off. So my question is, should I get her anything for it? I already got her flowers, and wouldn’t be opposed to more, but I want her to know I really took the time to find/make her something she will appreciate, but not push her too much. Any suggestions? Maybe a nice letter with some nice memories? Or maybe a nice collection of poetry books, since that is going to be our new Sunday evening. Perhaps I will get her some nice books, and a nice journal type thing for her to write them in, and I will write a little something sweet in the beginning of it? What do you think?
