I was mad at the dang florist, not my H, but he took it personally
My DB coach told me that many men do that. If they pick a bad movie or the food is bad at a restaraunt, they feel it is thier fault for choosing wrong. She said her H feels that way.
I know I read about your vacation somewhere in your posts, but I don't remember where. When are you going? Are you going to some place in Florida?
I showed those pouches to my H. He said, "No way. If I wear that, I'll wind up in the hospital and they'll put me in the loony bin." Several years ago, he got very ill and had to go to the hospital. He happened to be wearing some sexy bikinis that night. The staff asked him if he was gay (I wasn't at the hospital with him at the time.). But they understood when he said I bought them for him. Now he refuses to wear anything sexy.