Light at the End?

[~Sol]

I'm already doing that. I pull in most of the income, so I get most of the household bills paid, even the mortgage. I have a few separate accounts set aside but I need to fill them up. She has her own personal credit cards and she pays for her own car (both our names), but I made her pay for her own dam car as long as she's working too. But she also brings home groceries, so we both do our share with what we both make from our jobs. That's why she's afraid to lose me - she won't be able to afford a place on her own, well, she better start to think about staying in this marriage and to work on it then. I have been trying to do that all along - but I can't steer her in the right direction - only she can do that.

I want to be in my daughter's life - she needs at least one sane parent in her life. Right now, I am standing by myself. My arms are crossed and I am waiting for my W to prove to me that she wants this M now. It's her move, she needs to work at it too.