Before my H cheated online on me he used to keep all the bills hidden away and I never saw them. At that time it didn't really bother me, he paid the bills...I knew they got paid. In my situation though he also used the credit cards to pay for his activities....so now, there is NOTHING I cannot view at any given moment.
He used to also clear the history/cache out of the computer EVERY time he'd go on it...another HUGE warning sign, and well...so is locking the computer. I'm glad for you that there was no A. Trust is a HUGE factor in a relationship, if you don't have it...then what's the point? That's why it's so important for those who have cheated to do whatever it takes to earn back their betrayed spouse's trust.
