Yeah, lala land is correct. I know i can't change where she is, it doesn't matter how much it hurts, the only thing I can do is be confident and attractive, and help seeding doubt in her mind that way.
I started thinking today about being attractive to my wife, and i am going to try to start looking at it differently.
Instead of thinking how to be attractive to my wife, I am going to think, how can I be attractive to women in general, since i don't have a clue what my wife wants anymore. What can I do to make myself more attractive to a woman. #1 on the list right now is break out of this depression, and get my self-confidence back. #2 is smile more, laugh more.
Looks like my stats are similar to a lot of peoples here. I hope the best for you guys. I just hope that our wives affairs fall apart quickly, and we are all still in a place to try to fix things if they come back.
____________________________________ Me - 30 W - 34 Together: 9 yrs Married: 6 yrs Kids: 2 girls (4 and 6) Informed of EA: Dec, 2006 Seperated: Apr, 2007 Informed of PA: Apr, 2007
