Originally Posted By: Matilda2

Now he asked if he could sleep in the basement. He made it clear that he didn't want to talk. Wonder why he even bothered to come over. Maybe the boat is feeling a bit cramped after 10 days.


Hi Matilda - It is a shame he is still not ready to live authentically. His confusion though should not be your problem. I guess what I am saying is that his actions should not create an inconvenience for you. Would living in the basement mean you have to cook his meals?

It would seem that he assumes your life revolves around his whims - perhaps it is time to let him see that you are moving on?

Hugs to you, Slowly


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