Nope.

I have 1 week of no contact under my belt, and it feels good.
Everyday has been a relief.

I am going to keep 2 weeks regardless, and hope for 3 from TJ. My goal is 6 weeks.
A few things could come up in the mean time.

1. Realtor wants to update T^J, and he might use that as a reason to contact me. Might beat him to the punch.
2. 4 way settlement conference call, in early June.

I can tell realtor to tell TJ that I will agree to whatever TJ thinks is best. So I can sidestep that one.
The 4 way may be longer than 6 weeks, but even still, I will be in office with my L and I will be as mute as I can possibly be.

So no news is good news. It really helps me. I feel the healing happening.

I am focusing. I got over it, but I know I will constantly fight the battle of letting FIL know he has alot of power right now. I will be still.
Keep after me friends!

I want the no contact for me.

I am doing well.
Cheers,
Hooly

Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.