Don't sweat it on the counselor phone call. The C shouldn't say anything about it at all to your wife. My best to you. At least she seems to see what she stands to lose. It's not JUST kids. If she didn't want to be there, she wouldn't be there. Breathe. If she couldn't live without OM she'd find a way to be with him. She is heading in the opposite direction. That is a good sign. I konw it might not feel that way to you.
May your next theme park ride be a merry go round
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby
