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[COG]

CJ,

If all you focus on is the O, you take the fun out of it. Focus on having fun getting there. If she has fun getting there she will look forward to it next time......When you touch your W outside of ML, do you flirt with her and then leave her alone so that she doesn't feel like she has to ML. Many women don't like feeling like they are going to ML every time they are touched or spoken to in an intimate way. Make her feel beautiful and loved without expecting sex. The same goes for any romantic outings or gestures. Do some things with her or for her that she likes without expecting sex. Google "romantic ideas."

My problem is that she's closed, not open to ANYTHING that resembles one on one physical intimacy. Sure we hug and kiss hello and goodnight, but that's all she's open to. Anything more makes her want to run and hide, like I'm a headless zombie. But I will search google just the same.

Maybe just being a little silly could help. What do you think of these: http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=sr_so_0/102-...Clothes&page=1.

Um, I'm thinking not in a million friggin years would I wear something like that. I look more like a Bill Murray than a whoever macho movie star.

I talked to him about it last time (Saturday) and asked him if it would be okay if I wrote them on a piece of paper. He was okay with that. He hasn't looked it over, yet. I hope it works. I could send you the same list by PM if you like.

Well heck ya I'd like to get some real behind the scenes info. I'm out to lunch on this stuff. If you can't get the PM stuff working here's my email [e-mail]

Thanks,

COG