We're not separated--she doesn't want to affect kids' lives. Just seems that way, as there is no contact except forced hugs.
Forgot to note above: W also had me print off copy of Cincy Reds schedule, so she could plan Goal Celebration Trip. She, her best friend and trainer are planning weekend trip in August to gamble, dance, and party. BF is a 37yo widow of 2 years duration (husband died of Cancer) who has had relationships with 2 married men in last year. She had an unhappy marriage and has told my wife she needs to make herself happy and not to feel guilty if something happens with the trainer. Doesn't make me feel comfortable about situation. If something does happen, I know there is no choice but separate.
