Others say do everything you can to keep your wife close to you, while detaching from feeling emotionally hurt about what she is "doing" to you. My DB Counselor has told me that as long as she is at home with me (even though she is full steam ahead with the OM), I have a chance for her to see the changes in me.
Am i correct?
There is disagreement between the two camps, but I just can't understand how you not let her actions affect you while living with her. It's just to much to ask a person to endure IMHO.
I know my temperament would not allow me to do that and I would consider myself pretty level headed and laid back. Others might be able to handle it, but I just couldn't tolerate living with her while she's screwing OM.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
