i guess what i'm saying is, often exploration, slow and gentle, and sometimes a bit rough and insistent is awesome and very sexy. letting a woman know you appreciate her physically and find her so desirous; that you are proud of her and want to adorn her and take the time to try various things--youi know how a woman will hold an outfit up and look in the mirror to see how it looks? try doing stuff like that..

all i know is it would have me eating out of your hands!

and, sometimes women like a man to be manly and not so considerate--but not too often! remember scarlet in gone with the wind, as he carries her upstairs and the next morning she's purring like a kitten??