Sex is also rather boring for me. We kiss, he plays with my boobs, then goes for the O. Yep, that's me alright. Are you sure you're not my W? And so what your trying to say is that kissing, playing with boobs, then going for the O is not the right plan. That's all I know. That's all that 99.9% of men know.
well, all women are different, but hey, one of the things i realllly loved was when i was cooking and H would come up behind me and put his hands all over me...i'd stop whatever i was doing, lean back with eyes closed and melt into his chest.
another time, he grabbed me, backed me up to the wall while kissing and groping me, pushed me back on the stairs and little by little, we worked our way up the stairs.
i always fantasized about being shoved back on the dining room table......
and my all time favorite thing was watching him shave-nude, of course, so intent on what he was doing, and i would end up on the floor at his feet and, well, you know. then HE would stand with his eyes closed, water running, lost in sensation.....
ever scrub her back but end up soaping her up?
or, another time, when he bought me a single red rose and used that to lightly circle all over my body.....
i think exploring each other's bodies is the most relaxing and erotic pasttime...
and somehow, my H and i ended up where we lay together, his hand on my breast while watching kindergarten cop and THAT was foreplay????? sigh...