W moving out & says that it's permanent - Part 2

[Heywyre]

Ok, first of all... regardless of what your W does, YOU need to take care of YOU. YOU need to see a C - regardless of whether W decides to keep going or not. YOU need to think of what is best for YOU ... not what her parents think, not what other members of her family thinks, NO ONE - understand?

I know this is hard, but you are dwelling (typical emotion, especially if you are depressed) and it is just going to drag you further into the hole.

Also, think of it from the family's point of view. They have a daughter and son-in-law that are going through their problems. Who's side (no matter what) do you think they are going to take? And, regardless of whether they think she is right or wrong, they most likely don't want to get into the middle of it - ESPECIALLY if they think she is wrong. Can you imagine the mess that would cause. And, do you really need any more drama in your life right now?

Keep venting on here - I know how much it helped me and I am more than willing to return the favour