I think you are doing the right thing. You are being loving and smart, and as "safe" as any of us are. You do have good dialogue with him. Maybe you don't have to ask him so often for reassurance, or at least not verbally (hugs tell a lot). It could get on his nerves. I don't know. At some point I'm sure he'll just want the trust to be assumed and that goes both ways. If you are making a mistake, at least it's the loving trusting kind. Better to err on the side of love, than cynical self protection. I think. Crossing fingers, and staying hopeful for both of us. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
