Wise DB'ers please help!

[Heywyre]

You are definitely on the right track - keep it up!!

Sounds like you are getting all the right responses from her - right? So, just be consistent and take it one day at a time. This mess didn't happen overnight and you can't fix it overnight either. The BEST part is that she still loves you, she is willing to work on things, she is willing to go for C with you, she wants this to work - I could go on but there are A LOT of positives in your sitch

Don't feel bad posting about good things. This is what we ALL need to hear. It is posters like you that give us the strength to keep trying. We need the encouragement to know we are on the right track and there are the miracles that happen - we need to hear those things.

I am soooooooooooooooo pleased for you, this is wonderful. Ahhhh young love.

I think her going back to work has probably helped her a lot too but just you being there for her obviously means a lot to her - think of what she said (she's wouldn't have wanted to share it with anyone else) - that's TREMENDOUS!!!!

Keep up the GREAT work and keep us posted

p.s. the flowers and the simple message were perfect (I am sure you will get a positive response)