Valeria, I hope that your lawyer isn't charging you a fee for filing the contempt of court papers or his discussion of this morning. I'm glad you called your lawyer on this behavior. Many times, lawyers take it upont themselves to help the situation along and then it creates havoc for all parties concerned.
Take care.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.