It's okay, I did letters too. And I did those same talks as well. These are probably stages we all have to go through. Just don't feel sad or angry when if it doesn't make a difference.

Just focus on you and your kids and don't expect anything from her at this time. When someone has fallen into an affair it's often like they are drunk or on drugs. It's sometimes impossible for them to see the logic or reason in things.

There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.