I am not good at keeping a balance and as a result, I think sometimes I am being too "distant" and sometimes too "pushy". H is very nice and is not complaining, but that's because he never shows his feelings. I can sense that he may not like this sometimes. Eggshells!!!!!
I hear you there, OC! In fact, I was just thinking this morning how I don't really know what to do. Do I initiate the hugging, kissing, ILY, e-mails, etc? or do I let H do it? He seems to have backed off quite a bit and is acting distant after some really nice times this weekend.. So hard to know what to do !!!!