Actually, I have already given up. I am trying to get the $ so I can file. The $ is the only reason why we aren't finished yet. In my mind we r though. I have become numb and even more numb as the time passess on.
This woman will also soon see H's insensitivity. When my dad who was in a coma died last year, my H was in South America at the time and I received more sympathy from his coworkers and people who did not even know my father than my own husband. Granted H could'nt be here physically at the time,but when he got back a week later and all I wanted was a hug every know and then, guess what I got? H- "get over it your father really has been dead for years!!" My mom says she doesn't undertand why anything he does surprises me b/c that is the kind of man I married, selfish, insenstive and w/ out empathy.
