A restraining order usually cannot be for "emotional haelth" In most states they are for protection from immenent harm, usually physical. ROs normally do not address custody issues. My suggestion to you would be to speak to an attorney regarding a legal seperation, and in that document when visitation/custody is delineated, a clause about no sleepovers can be added....usually for both parties. Unfortunately in our ccurrent sosiety, not all judges feel that adultery is a big deal. Good luck


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