Whore/Madonna Syndrome

[Heywyre]

Unfortunately I can't go with him because (1) he is flying there and this is an injury claim situation where the company is paying for his flight (2) I have to work today (and I can't take time off on such short notice because I am an instructor at the University)

However, he has just left and I didn't have to say anything about being worried because he said "don't worry, I'll be ok" I asked him if he felt "strong" and he said yes, he was fine. He then told me he would call me on my way to work and also on my break.

After that he will be in the doctor's office for about an hour and then he might grab something to eat (yes, I know the man has to eat but right there I thought "will he be eating alone?") and then he said he would head straight to the airport and call me from there. So, he did say he would call several times, which is good however no guarantee that he is actually where he says he is, is there? I know that sounds paranoid but I can't seem to help it today - grrrrrrrrr

Thanks GEL - this is helping me tremendously just knowing there is someone out there that understands what I am going through