your signature about "thinking the spouse wanted a divorce,"
25, Sorry to correct you on this, but my sig say, "we have each asked the other." We have had some disagreements where we wer so disgusted with each other that we were almost ready to give up. Once or twice, he asked me. Other times I asked him. Sometimes it was in the heat of the argument. Sometimes it was after we had cooled off a bit. The last time was a year or two ago. We had cooled off some overnight. H still seemed very sullen. I asked H if he was done. "Do you want me to move out? Or are you thinking you want to move out? The kids get along better with you, but I am able to spend more time with them. If we seperate, that will mean we have to pay rent somewhere as well the payment on this house." I was saying all this in a calm, matter of fact voice. He stopped me and very quietly said, "I don't want to split up." He hugged me and said, "We'll work this out somehow." We haven't mentioned divorce or separation since.
