She has developed an EA with kick boxing coach about 2 months ago, known him for 7 months.
Regardless of what I have heard from others regarding that he is not interested in starting a relationship with someone 10 years older with a child, I think her constant pursuit of him has possibly or will possibly lead to PA.
She cant stop txting or calling or meeting with him, and loves being around him. He has many female friends that are non-PA's.
She went interstate with her two girlfriends and he went on his own to catch up with them (don't know if he took any friends). This was a shopping trip (brand depots tour).
Everything points to PA.
Has anyone experienced the beginnings of a EA/PA and what was their spouses demenour towards them when at home? Friendly, angry, distant etc etc.
We have been getting on really well of late (as friends) and she told me all about how fun the trip was, what she bought etc etc.
During our marraige she has been very remorseful when she has lied to me, or done things she is afraid of, and cant hide it at all (no poker face).
She was honest enough about telling me how she really likes being with him, he makes her happy and she wont rule anything out regarding a relationship in the future.
But when I asked if they had discussed this, she said that they had not discussed a relationship, he knew her situation and she did not know how he felt about her (other than friend).
Any takes on this.
P.S I still think he may be gay.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
