Yoyo, hang in there. It is so hard to balance the distance Vs the connection like all other have said already. I think you are doing great. My h is a poker face so it is tough to see if I am doing the right thing.

I have to keep telling myself to pay attention to things h says so i can pick up some clues (like if your h says he needs space, then give him space). At the same time, we all know we have to NOT believe what they say about us. So difficult.

Take care.


M 38, H 38, two sons
Met 20 years ago
Married 13 years
Bomb: Oct, 2006
DB: Started in Dec, 2006
H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007
H back home and piecing?