Sashaying thru Seperation II

[Yoyowife]

I know what you mean about not knowing how much more you can take. The OW in my case is his secretary who has filed for D from her husband. So they are together everyday. It hurts so bad. I'm like you sometimes I wonder if D wouldn't be better, but I guess I'm a glutton for punishment because I continue to stand for my M.

I guess the hardest thing to understand is how they can also walk away from the children. I'm so glad that you have the children I know they bring you so much comfort, but how in the world can she stand to be away from them? I'm not trying to slight you by saying you're not important, but the children would definitely be a big reason for me to stay in the M and try to work it out. My H has done the same thing. He only sees them every now and then. They are busy with friends and activities. I see them a lot more because they live with me. It's hard to believe our spouses would rather spend time with OP than family. I know I'm assuming, but they sure don't give us much reason to think otherwise. They are definitely not their normal selves. Please, let the fog lift.