Any books that you can get your spouse to read that will help your R/M is a VERY good idea. A lot of spouses can't get their partner to read the books so they have to practice all the things on their own, which is still good, but not as good as when they both read it.
When my H has his first A, he never read anything, wouldn't go for counselling - nothing! It was just a disaster waiting to happen all over again, and it did!!
This time, is like night and day. We are reading the books together, going for C together and separately and working very hard to keep this R together. It has made all the difference in the world and I REALLY, TRULY believe we are going to make it
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
