Is it over for me?

[Yoyowife]

Hi Guys,
Thanks to responding to my question about the phone call. I must not have put him off too much because he called this afternoon talking about the pool. He said he was going to come over today to work on it but the pump he was going to borrow from a friend was loaned out.

He also asked if the mail he got was a check. I said I couldn't really tell by the window on the envelope but it looked like it. He asked me to open and see.

He said said he would be by tomorrow to check on the pool. I will make sure I'm looking hot. I kept my tone friendly, but not needy. Usually on Sundays I would invite him to come to dinner, but I didn't this time. Remember he told me he needed space. So any face to face meetings I want him to iniate.

I'm trying hard to detach lovingly with no expectations! To loosely quote Mcjoh--the lying and adultery rips our hearts out, detaching or no detaching.