just wanted to comment here Sol.

Right now - you are vulnerable. You are hurt, angry and you might feel you've been dealt a low blow....to you as a person and your self esteem.

Your W might know you talked to om - she might not. However, if they truly DID have a PA, she has to have some guilt and be worried about what you might do KWIM?

Revenge sex or whatever.

For me, it seemed like after the A, women popped up a LOT more around H and I openly admit I worried.

Heck, there's a chick now who STILL gets under my skin - she just asked him to dinner, a drink or 'something' this week. He doesn't like her in that way, he doesn't want to be with her alone for any of the above. It still puts me on guard and I'd still love to pull all of her teeth out. human nature I suppose ;\)

Just be wary of everything right now - because the last thing you need - is to get tangled up in your own little A from being hurt by your W.

Sorry you're hurting right now buddy \:\(

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I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
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..."Nobody's Fool"...

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