I found out two weeks ago my wife wants to divorce. I am crushed! I've been trying to talk with her, to no avail. I recently bought the Divorce Remedy. Of course after reading the book I have learned that I have been doing a lot of things wrong in trying to save our marriage. I have started putting into practice some things that she has stated as being a problem. I have only seen a few small signs of progress, but progress is progress..."Small steps". I asked her to read the book, she has agreed, is this a good idea or bad?