I was just being provocative and silly. I also MB to themes generated by the sight of water towers, motorcycles and mossy glades along the hiking trail etc. etc. etc. I think my recent experiences with internet "dating" give me some insight into how "unreal" of an affair of any kind any cyber-flirting LFL and Chrome did would have been. If they ever met in person it would be apparent to them too. Clearly all affairs are based largely on "fantasy". Unfortunately, the same can be said for all relationships during that early golden glow of infatuation. What makes or breaks a real relationship is putting in the hard, consistent work of bonding and rebonding over time. Having any sort of affair is really more stupid than "wrong". Why would anyone want to form a relationship with someone who is unwilling or unable to do the work of either fixing their current relationship or freeing themselves from it without need of "rescue"? Any relationship formed from an affair would right from the get-go have the dysfunctional form of two people leaning on each other for support- fusion-o-rama.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
