P.S. -- I also noticed in MariS's situation that she has been snooping quite a bit as far as OW is concerned, and that, again, no one has really said anything to her about this?
I put a number "1" on today's date on my calendar. This is day 1 of "going dark" with H and no R/M/OW talk. Will work towards what 25 said, but will start with 1 day instead of one week and will build from there. Seeing something concrete on the calendar will help me to focus. Wish I was in Vegas again so that I was farther away from him. It's much easier that way...
