I had a great time at my parent's anniversary party and managed to avoid most questions about H. Just one cousin could tell something was wrong, but I told her the party wasn't the time to talk about it. Luckily my family was really busy and didn't ask personal questions. I wanted to call H and say, "I want to celebrate OUR 60th one day!" I didn't call, though. He actually thought to call my parent's house the night of the party and left a message for them. That was a surprise (and I told him I greatly appreciated his thoughtful gesture....I told him this via a text message). THere is still a bit of the old, thoughtful H inside!!!!!
Found a message on the computer screen when I got home asking his FF if they still had a date on Sunday. GGGGGRRRRR. He told D16 (she calls him almost daily to keep in touch) that he was with his brother. Wish that didn't bother me so.