I WANT a H that wants to have sex because he likes it, needs it, wants it.
I think I wrote exactly the same thing in one of my posts. The difference between my H and yours though is that at least yours is willing to try, mine just says I can like it or lump it. I am currently lumping it in my own place and it is an incredibly lonely place to be. There was a lot more problems than the sex, in the end it got ridiculous, but it might have been because of the sex! I keep thinking I miss him and I want to go back so I should just do it. But then I think it through and know that I don't want to be treated the way I was. I hope you can become content, leaving isn't easier than staying.