She works that is how the A started and how it continues. NO I haven't yet seen a lawyer, but I know now that I probably need to.

As for the car. Even though I am not letting my W stay in our house anymore she is still going to be watching and caring for our kids. We have not thought through all the logistics yet. All I know is that the kids are not leaving the house and neither am I. Back to the car.... I want the kids to have a reliable car, I can care less if she gets stranded on the side of the road. Actually I do care but is so easy to be mean to her rightnow. By me paying her car off I know that the girls will be in a reliable car when they are with my W and that frees up money so that I can get a new car with the same payment ammount.

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Me - 30
2 girls- 3,6Current