I do love him but the lack of passion/connection is just about killing me. Maybe some of you see a clear answer but I sure don't.

Is that something you can tell your H, "I do love you, but the lack of passion/connection is just about killing me."

I tell BB something like this but it is usually countered with "well you did xyz...." so nothing gets resolved.

I think the "I do love you, but the lack of passion/connection is just about killing me." is honest and non-judgmental.

About the waiting till these feelings pass, well I suspect they will pass and are slightly over emphasized right now. It's the old "I have it fairly good" one feels on Monday. Nothing changes and by Thursday "life sucks."


I am having thoughts of just escaping, ending the whole M. It is still just fantasy but it is disturbing to me.

Sorry you are in that club too.

Lou