Situation is WAW left and divorced me 8 months ago. I was very devastated as so many others. It was very fast left on Thursday filed on Monday and 30 days later we were divorced from the start she said some wierd things which led me to believe she was very confused and acting too fast. I did the normal begged, pleased cried, about 2 months ago i finally pulled myself together and have began steps of moving foward she has always been interested in my life since we div asking my sister questions and calling me all the time. After reading and builing strength i have learned to not be so available and have missed several of her calls and called back later if needed. Well the past few weeks she has been very interested in what im doing even going as far as having her nephew call me on a friday night to see if i wanted to go to the club or if i had any plans this was my weekend i had my D so it seemed really strange to me. Also my daughter has been calling me alot and putting me on speaker phone and asking me questions that a 5 year old wouldnt ask like where am i what im a doing? Than wed night daughter calls me we talk for a bit and later ex calls i missed the call than she text me and said she needed to talk and called me started saying that D was getting in trouble at daycare so i talked to her than i asked if there is anything else and she started crying pretty heavy and we got off phone than D called me next morning at 0730 than 3 times that night than on saturday 4 times. I love talking to my D no doubt but i starting to think Ex is behind this. I have kept the faith and continue going to counsling just looking for some input as to what others think the more i pull away the more she worries and tried to get closer i havnet given her any idea as to what im doing in my life i dont like that but no i have too, thanks.
